That's bullshit. People can't just decide not to feel the pain anymore. — Asked by fuckyeahbreakmyheart

You can decide when you’re going to stop letting pain rule and ruin your life. You can decide when it’s time to man/woman up and move the fuck on. Trust me, I KNOW. You have total control over your emotional well-being, it’s up to you to take proper care of that state of being, or not. 

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  1. wsmyflyiwewss said: yes you can… it won’t stop immediately, but once you decide not to feel it, it means you’re going to focus on yourself from now on…and day by day you’ll get better, until you can’t feel the pain anymore.
  2. ijustwantedyoutoknow said: I agree 100%. You can choose to wallow and feel self-pity, and for a while that is a healthy place to be. But there comes a time when you have to get up and decide to move on with your life. Only then will the pain fade. It’s a decision.
  3. daguilar5 said: i guess im bullshit huh :/
  4. uniquelythesame said: My experience has been more in line with fybmh, but I would say that there will always some amount of time needed between a “breakup” and “over it,” it’s just different for other people. Proper emotional care surely lends to a shorter recovery time.

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